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“Look for the helpers.”— Fred Rogers
Hey Reader, It’s been a chaotic couple of weeks. Personally. And zooming out… the world. I’ve always loved that quote. But lately I’ve been thinking I’ve been interpreting it too narrowly. Helpers aren’t just the obvious heroes. Sometimes they’re the people in the background, doing their job well, quietly holding things together. And that realization started with an unexpected place: the Artemis II mission. As a Possible-ist, there are two sides to how I see the world. I see potential quickly, in people, ideas, situations. Most of the time, that’s a gift. But when things feel unsettled, that same instinct starts scanning for what could go wrong. I’ve always had backup plans. Just in case. A blessing. And a curse. Lately, between a new corporate client with a steep learning curve and everything else going on, I haven’t felt as inspired to write. • Everything’s felt heavier than it should. • Harder to find footing. • Easier for my brain to spin than to make decisions. And from the conversations I’ve been having, I’m not the only one feeling it. So I found myself checking in on YouTube. Watching the Artemis II mission. Not for long. Just enough to see what they were up to. To make sure they were OK. And, if I’m being honest, to watch competency in action. No excuses. No blame. Even when things didn’t go perfectly. Just people doing their jobs, precisely, calmly, together. Someone called it efficiency porn. Honestly? Yeah that resonated. Because here’s what I realized: it’s not just impressive to watch excellence. It’s what’s been missing. It resets the bar. To see people who know their role. Who trust each other. Who aren’t second-guessing every move. Then I thought about something Astronaut Christina Koch said upon her return to earth about the difference between a team and a crew. • A team works together. • A crew is something deeper. "A crew is people fully committed, moving in sync toward a shared purpose, holding each other to a high standard, caring enough to show up fully. For the work and for each other." Not just talent. Not just intelligence. Alignment. That distinction has been sitting with me this week. Because I’ve felt that before. Not at NASA. On stage. In theater. In improv. In choral singing. There’s a moment, if you’ve ever been part of it, where everything just locks in. You stop thinking about yourself. You start listening. Adjusting. Responding. Everyone is doing their part. And because of that, something bigger happens. It’s not perfect. But it’s aligned. And once you’ve felt that, you don’t forget it. You miss it when it’s not there. So maybe that’s part of what’s been heavy with the world lately. The absence of that feeling... Of being part of something where: • People know their role • People trust each other • People are actually working toward the same thing When that’s present, things move. When it’s not, everything feels harder than it should. And maybe zooming out even further… Christina Koch talked about seeing Earth from space, the planet surrounded by vast emptiness. She said it changes how you see things. Earth stops feeling permanent. It starts feeling shared. Fragile. Like a lifeboat. (Borrowed. But it fits.) And the realization that follows is simple: we’re all part of the same crew. So here’s what I’m sitting with, and maybe you are too:
You don’t have to answer perfectly. Just honestly. Because that’s what steadies things. Not having all the answers. Just knowing your role and playing it well. Thanks for being part of mine. Until next time, |
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